Tuesday, October 12, 2004

The Uncomfortable My Side…

I didn't write yesterday. I couldn't quite bring myself to speak.

… I know. Stop laughing.

Things between Vicky and I have taken a definite turn for the worse over the past few weeks - to the point now where I'm doubting pretty much everything.

We had our engagement party Saturday night (NUTS to those of you who didn't tell me you weren't coming). Tim Clostio came up from San Diego for it. Both he and Vicky's brother, Mike, gave us wonderful gifts. And then, Tim gave me an X-Box for my birthday. (Way to go, Tim!!)

All of this, however, is viewed through the contrast of all the fighting Vicky and I have been doing. Now, this Blog is not meant for the airing of dirty laundry (the by-laws of the My Side Foundation expressly forbid that, while encouraging the airing of neurosises… go figure) so I'm not going to get into who did or did not do what to whom. Suffice it to say, this should have been a terrific weekend but ended up pretty wretched… and continues that way…

… and we're going up to visit Tim & Autumn this weekend. The fun never ends...

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

If you're dreading visiting Tim & Autumn, why are you visiting Tim & Autumn?

Ken said...

Whoa! Major miscommunication here!

I am really looking forward to seeing Tim & Autumn! It's the possibility of Vicky and I being seen as the bickering couple, the unhappy couple, the "and they want to get married?!" couple, that I dread.

Vicky and I have a lot of work to do to make this work - and I really want to make this work. I think we both do. I was just venting.